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woman sitting holding a glass of wine and looking out of the windowUnderstanding the risks—and finding healthier ways to cope

Bariatric surgery is a powerful tool for improving your health and quality of life. But surgery changes more than the size of your stomach. It can also change how your body responds to certain substances and how you cope with emotions, stress, boredom, and other triggers.

For some people, behaviors or substances that were not a problem before surgery can become more difficult to control afterward. This is sometimes called “transfer addiction” or “addiction transfer.”

The important thing to remember is: This is not a character flaw, and it does not mean your surgery has failed. It is a signal that you may need additional support.

What is transfer addiction?

Transfer addiction refers to replacing one compulsive behavior with another.

Before surgery, food may have been used to cope with stress, loneliness, anxiety, sadness, boredom, or difficult emotions. After surgery, eating large amounts of food is no longer physically possible—but the underlying emotional needs may still be there.

Sometimes the brain looks for another way to get that same sense of comfort, reward, distraction, or relief.

A person may find themselves turning more frequently to:

  • Alcohol
  • Nicotine or vaping
  • Cannabis or other substances
  • Prescription medications, particularly when misused
  • Gambling
  • Shopping or spending
  • Excessive exercise
  • Internet, gaming, or other compulsive behaviors

Not everyone who has bariatric surgery will develop one of these problems. But everyone should be aware of the possibility.

Why is alcohol different after bariatric surgery?

Alcohol deserves special attention after bariatric surgery.

After procedures such as gastric bypass and sleeve gastrectomy, alcohol may be absorbed differently. Patients can experience higher or faster rises in blood alcohol levels and may feel the effects more quickly or intensely.

There is also another important consideration: alcohol contains calories but provides very little nutritional value.

A drink can also lower inhibitions and make it easier to:

  • Make less healthy food choices
  • Eat when you’re not physically hungry
  • Skip exercise
  • Make impulsive decisions
  • Return to old eating behaviors

For these reasons, many bariatric programs recommend avoiding alcohol, particularly during the early period after surgery. Your bariatric team can tell you what is appropriate for your specific procedure and circumstances.

“But I only have one drink.”

The number of drinks isn’t the only issue.

After bariatric surgery, your response to alcohol may be different than it was before surgery. One drink may affect you more than you expect, and it may take longer to metabolize.

If you choose to drink after your bariatric team says it is safe, discuss your individual situation with your healthcare providers and be especially cautious about driving or combining alcohol with medications.

Signs that alcohol or another substance may be becoming a problem

Pay attention to changes in your behavior—not just the amount you’re consuming.

Warning signs can include:

  • Drinking or using substances more often than you intended
  • Looking forward to drinking or using substances as your primary way to relax
  • Using alcohol or substances when you feel stressed, anxious, lonely, or upset
  • Hiding or minimizing how much you use
  • Feeling guilty or concerned about your use but continuing anyway
  • Needing more to achieve the same effect
  • Having difficulty stopping once you start
  • Choosing alcohol or substances over activities, relationships, or responsibilities
  • Using substances despite negative consequences

You don’t have to wait until there is a crisis to ask for help.

What can you do instead?

One of the most important parts of long-term bariatric success is learning new ways to manage emotions and stress.

Ask yourself:

“What am I really looking for right now?”

Are you hungry—or are you:

  • Stressed?
  • Lonely?
  • Bored?
  • Angry?
  • Tired?
  • Anxious?
  • Looking for a reward?
  • Trying to avoid an uncomfortable feeling?

Once you identify the underlying need, you can choose a healthier response.

Build your “coping toolbox”

Instead of turning to food, alcohol, or another substance, try having several alternatives available:

For stress:
Take a walk, practice deep breathing, listen to music, stretch, or call someone you trust.

For boredom:
Work on a hobby, read, garden, organize a room, do a puzzle, or get outside.

For loneliness:
Call a friend or family member, attend your support group, volunteer, or participate in a social activity.

For emotional eating:
Pause for 10 minutes before eating. Ask yourself what you’re feeling and whether food will actually solve the problem.

For cravings:
Change your environment. Go for a walk, drink water, distract yourself, or engage in an activity that requires your attention.

For difficult emotions:
Consider working with a therapist who understands obesity, bariatric surgery, and addictive behaviors.

Your support group matters

Bariatric surgery is not a one-time event. It is a lifelong journey.

Support groups can provide a safe place to talk about challenges that may be difficult to discuss elsewhere.

You may discover that someone else is struggling with exactly the same thing.

There is no shame in saying:

“I’m having a hard time.”

In fact, recognizing a problem early and asking for help is a sign of strength.

When should you ask for professional help?

Talk with your bariatric team, primary care provider, mental health professional, or addiction specialist if you are concerned about your use of alcohol or other substances.

If you believe you may have developed a substance-use problem, don’t try to handle it alone.

Some substances—including alcohol, benzodiazepines, and certain prescription medications—can cause dangerous withdrawal if stopped suddenly. A healthcare professional can help you determine the safest approach.

If you ever feel that you may hurt yourself or someone else, seek emergency help immediately.

The bottom line

Bariatric surgery changes your relationship with food—but it doesn’t automatically eliminate the emotions, stress, habits, or life circumstances that contributed to overeating.

The goal isn’t simply to replace one coping mechanism with another.

The goal is to develop a healthier toolbox of skills that can help you manage stress, emotions, cravings, and life’s challenges without relying on food, alcohol, or substances.

And remember:

Asking for help is not a sign that you have failed.
Asking for help is part of taking care of yourself.

A question for our support group:

What is one healthy activity that helps you cope with stress, boredom, or difficult emotions without turning to food or another substance?

Share your ideas—your strategy might be exactly what another person in our group needs to hear.
 

Janet Klein, MS, RDN, CDN, CDCES

Janet Klein, MS, RDN, CDN, CDCES is Garnet Health Medical Center's Bariatric Surgery & Obesity Medicine Program Director

She received her Bachelor of Science Degree in Dietetics from the State University at Oneonta and her Master of Science in Education from Queens College University. She is a Certified Diabetes Care and Education Specialist, a Registered Certified Dietitian-Nutritionist, holds an Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics certificate of Training in Obesity Interventions for Adults, and is a member of the Integrated Health group of the American Society for Metabolic and Bariatric Surgery (ASMBS).

She brings more than 35 years of clinical, educational and leadership experience to Garnet Health Medical Center, where she spearheaded the Bariatric Surgery Program in 2008, received Accreditation for the program through the ASMBS in 2011, re-accredited the program through the American College of Surgeons (ACS) Metabolic and Bariatric Surgery Quality Improvement Program (MBSAQIP) in 2014, 2017, currently and continues to lead the program with passion.

Janet can be reached at 845-333-2123 or jklein@garnethealth.org

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